Someone you know may feel scared or unable to ask for help.

It is important that we are able to recognize the warning signs that someone we know may be using the new technologies inappropriately and to assist them in seeking help. Although all members of the family can be affected, it is often an adult partner who suffers the greatest impact. However, it is not only adults who may harm children via the internet. Some young people use the new technologies to harm other children. Because anyone can create their own content via cell phones and social networking sites, some young people create their own illegal and inappropriate material, sometimes unwittingly, which puts themselves and others more at risk.

 Access to the online world via computers, other communication devices and networks offers an experience of anonymity which increases the chance that both adults and youth will take risks and experiment with behavior they might never[ital] attempt in “real life”. By taking protective actions in advance and speaking up about questionable behavior, we can help prevent harmful use of the Internet.

Warning signs which may indicate dangerous or illegal online behavior
 

Many of the warning sign behaviors below may have legitimate explanations and be caused by other factors in a person’s life, or they may be inappropriate for other reasons. If you are worried, (and it is safe to do so), speak directly to the person you are worried about, talk to someone you trust, or consult with a professional.

Changes in Internet activity patterns

Isolating behavior

Changes in social behavior

What to do if you have concerns about someone’s behavior online

It is very disturbing to suspect someone we know may be looking at abusive images of children. You may find yourself dismissing your concerns and reassuring yourself that this person would never do such a thing. If you are worried that someone is using the new technologies in a way that may be harmful to children, take some action. Offer them professional help so they can learn how to successfully change their behavior. Offer to review an internet addiction screening test together. Install internet filters. Set clear rules about how and when Internet access is allowed. Help them to “unplug” if necessary.

Men, women and young people who are using the new technologies because of a sexual interest in children or to sexually abuse them need to seek help. If you see warning signs in someone you know, help is available.

Adapted with permission from Stop It Now! UK & Ireland, The Internet and Children – What’s the Problem, http://www.stopitnow.org.uk/help--advice/publications.aspx

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Organization: Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health

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Organization: Internet Behavior Consulting Company

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Cybersex addiction and internet addiction resources useful to professionals, parents and those concerned about their own cybersexual behavior. Includes an online workbook

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Title:The Internet and Children - Whats the Problem
Abstract:Guidebook with safety tips for families and children and encouragement to question harmful use of the internet and new technologies.
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Stop It Now! UK & Ireland
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Title:Cybersex Unhooked: A Workbook for Breaking Free from Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior
Abstract:Workbook to help people who are struggling with online compulsive sexual behaviors
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