Children and teens who abuse are not just smaller versions of adults who abuse.

One of the most difficult discoveries a parent can make is to learn that your child may have sexually harmed or abused another child.  Denial, shock, anger, and pain are common reactions. Remember that children and young people who commit sexual offenses are not younger versions of adult offenders, and specialized therapists understand this. The reasons they abuse are usually quite different from the reasons adults abuse, and current therapeutic strategies used with children and youth reflect this knowledge.  Positive, supportive help for the child or young person and the family can make a real difference.  Evidence shows that the earlier children get help, the more able they are to learn the skills they need to control behavior.

Specialized therapy.

In specialized treatment, young people learn to:

Therapy often involves the parent/s or guardian/s. If you are the parent of a child in treatment, the therapist may help you work out a plan that will support your child’s treatment at home. Being willing to participate and encouraging your child to participate will help them succeed in therapy.

Group therapy is also used with older kids and teens. In groups they learn to understand and find new ways to express themselves in relationships. They learn skills to recognize and interrupt sexually harmful behaviors, to socialize with their peers in safe ways, and to develop a healthier sense of self in the context of the group.

For more, read "What to consider when looking for treatment for your child" Guest column by Steven Bengis, Ed D, LCSW in PARENTtalk, When Abuse Hits Home (Spring 2004)

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Organization: The New England Adolescent Research Institute (NEARI)

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Title:Frequently Asked Questions about Adolescent Sexual Offenders and Children with Sexual Behavior Problems
Abstract:Helpful answers to questions which arise when a youth hassexually abused another child
National Center for Sexual Behavior of Youth
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Title:Contrast: Traditional versus Sex-Specific Therapists
Abstract:Learn the differences between traditional therapists and sex-specific treatment providers
Child Molestation Prevention and Research Institute
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